If you're looking to be owned by Me, keep in mind that it's not as simple as sending a tribute and having ONE conversation of the kink and fetish nature or approaching Me for a session. In order to develop the kind of D/s dynamic that will benefit us both, it's going to take a lot of time in getting to know each other, not just memorizing what kinks and fetishes we both enjoy and those we'd rather stay away from.
I want to know as much about you as I possibly can. I want to know things about you no one else does. I want to explore ways I can mind fuck you into various levels of submission. I want to know exactly when you're ready to be one of My ghouls. Think of building a vanilla relationship. That takes time, trust, patience, and constant communication. A D/s relationship is the same way. We have to take our time and get to know one another, not only to see if we're compatible, but also to see if you're worthy of serving Me.
All subs who want to be owned by Me has to apply, along with sending the application fee. Afterwards, if I decide you're a good candidate, the process can begin.
• You must remain open and honest with me at all times
• You must communicate with me at all times. If you're not online everyday, then check in every other day
• You must tribute without being asked, along with sending weekly or bi-weekly, which ever we decide
• You must have My main tribute option ready to use and be ready to use others when I so choose
• You must begin the process of having to sacrifice things you'd want for yourself (or wife) in order to take care of My needs
• You must accept My decisions and understand why I believe they're best for you
• You must be self aware enough to know what's right for yourself and know that being submissive means strength, not weakness
• You must be willing to take part in after care when session or dungeon tasks are completed and self care when needed
• You must swear fealty to Me and give Me your entire devotion
• You will NOT tribute (unless I give permission) or approach another Domme for ANY reason. Also, poachers are everywhere. It takes strength to be owned, but leaving your Domme for someone else is nothing but weakness
• Any changes in our relationship MUST be discussed between us in order for us to evolve. Trust is key
Many factors go into being owned. So if you're not ready, don't approach. If you're selfish, don't approach. If you're not willing to be open, don't approach. If you're bad with patience, don't approach. If you have a wandering eye, don't approach. If you're broke, don't approach.
And although I don't deal with broke subs, I do work with all income levels. If you have the means to sacrifice and send when I want or need, then you're welcome to apply for ownership. The rest comes with time and dedication.
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